Client Diaries: Women in love and their weak men

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” she always loved the hero in love stories.. In hers.. She became one ! ”
Women in love and their weak men
I am a healer first and that’s my passion that’s the Shaman in me but the Wiccan in me loves to get lovers together.. Women fall in love and they fall deep , most times for them it’s for ever and ever.. Their man becomes the source of all their happiness and women surrender to their love unconditionally and this has always driven me to help them .
I am going to talk of two such remarkable women and their love stories.
Some time back a young woman walked into my office. I could instantly feel her pain and disappointment and I knew that a broken heart had come to me .. I could also decipher that by then she had been to various astrologers, Tarot readers and so called relationship healers .. All had given her a negative feedback but the girl kept looking for help .. She believed in her love and refused to give up , that’s how she found me.
She had been in love with this man for years . He had gone abroad to study and found a job there. The long distance failed to deter the lovers and the man came to India with the intention of marriage, that’s when things  went terribly wrong …the girl’s legal guardians ( she had lost her parents and was taken care of by her Uncle and Aunt) and the boy’s family  got into an ugly spat over the marriage arrangements. The boy felt insulted and believed that the girl did not stand up for him . He decided to call off the marriage and broke up with the girl . He severed all contact with her and went back!
She tried to get in touch with her lover but he was not receptive at all , that’s when she started running pillar to post , getting in touch with all sorts of pandits and energy workers. She got various rituals done but to no good . I had asked her to get a picture of her lover.. I looked at the picture and told her that she is meant to get married to this man and also within ninety days! I absolutely refused to do any ritual for her cause I knew it wasn’t required. Here I want to insist that sometimes unnecessary rituals disturb the existing energy and can have a negative impact. The girl was shaky so i gave her counselling and assured her of her happiness. She called me after a month and a half to tell me the good news of her marriage.. I could see the man was in love but his ego took a beating and he was acting out of that but I could also see that his love will get the better of him eventually.
The second story is basic .. A regular indian man who chose to be in love but lacked the courage to take a stand for that!
When this woman came to me ,I could make out that she was a no nonsense girl ,she decided to be the man in the relationship and do whatever was required to get her lover to face up his parents, who were dead against the match.
This required a lot of work .. This boy was very scared of his parents.. A fear that comes with dependency also he had childhood traumas that had led to his meek personality. I knew he would succumb to pressure and let his love down!
I had to start with healing the boy , to solve his childhood issues and to give him strength to take a stand , i also had to cast various spells to make the situation more conducive for the lovers last but not the least the parents had to be dealt with! Here I would like to mention that the psychic in me could make out that the parents of this boy had no reason to dislike the girl , these were adamant people who felt that their son will be happier with a bride of their choice also they did not approve of the girl’s financial status. I don’t believe that these are reasons to not like the girl, who was an honest and self reliant young woman.
The couple decided to get married secretly and then inform the family. A series of rituals were performed for the boy’s parents to relent and also eventually not pressurize and create situations for a divorce. All the hard work paid dividends..
Both these young women are married to the men they love and are now blessed with children. These brave women and their strength to take pain , fight out odds, forgive their lovers and go beyond the weaknesses of these men and not let go was remarkable. The Wiccan in me is often delighted knowing that in these love stories the women were the true heroes and the knights in shining armour!! It gives me immense happiness and fulfilment to help them cause someone has to !!

by Dr. Madhu Kotiya

Mind , body & Soul Doctor

http://www.indiatarot.com

http://www.wiccaindia.com

Client Diaries : Faith can move Mountains

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Client Diaries

Each interaction that i have had over the years with people who have come to me seeking help has left me humbled… Yes, I was a born healer, a born psychic but under the guidance of my Gurus… I have honed my gifts.

 I would like to share some of these stories with you all cause these are experiences I cherish.. not only was I able to give back this blessing bestowed on me but also for the reason that some of these cases had been very challenging and I had been successful in bringing a positive change .

For me, It’s the hope that people come to me with matters most… Lot of times when they have been let down then I am the only one left for them… That is quite a responsibility!!

This particular case came to me many years back… more than fifteen also please do understand that i have to keep the identities of the clients guarded… I keep a separate space for testimonials… Coming back to this… One fine day… This woman walks into my office, a pale shadow of a woman, very nervous, when she opened her mouth she was almost incoherent, I could make out.. She was highly qualified and yet there she was in that state… I realized that her entire being desired a baby… But it was not just that… She was not able to conceive and that had become an existential crisis for her.

She had eloped and married… as in Indian scenario, she was promptly disowned by her family and as the ways of the world go , the in laws were giving her hell for many years , the husband conveniently was mum to all her abuse , a mere spectator.

It is shocking but stands true even today that in this part of the world a child is the most important reason to hold a marriage.. a key to a woman’s future and security in this arrangement. She was discouraged to work and was then a dependant party… She had no money of her own and was in no position to pay me .. I always know the difference between aspirations and necessities and I knew that it was meant to be. She had come to the right place I decided to work on each issue individually… to my horror… I realized that her fallopian tubes were almost entirely blocked… Out of the two, one had hundred percent blockage, the other was ninety percent blocked, of course she had gotten all her medical test done and knew of her conditions… The options, for various reasons to her were nil and hence her idea of her life was in jeopardy.

I decided to go with the flow and started her healing… I worked on her each day and after three months or so… We decided to go for the tests… She was healed… her destiny and my blessings had worked in harmony and Voilà!!

Meanwhile… Our sessions together cleared lot of her blockages… She came into her being… Yes she conceived had a beautiful baby, now a grownup boy , a brilliant boy , i beam with pride too , his mother’s companion.. She took up a job… Is independent, to my delight!! I never bothered to ask her what she did with her in laws and the husband… All that matters is that she is happy and will raise a man with a spine because now she has a spine!!

By the end of it… It comes down to faith… I have always known that it’s faith that moves mountains… She came with that faith and I had to move mountains for her!!

by Dr. Madhu Kotiya

Mind, body & Soul Doctor

http://www.indiatarot.com

http://www.wiccaindia.com

can be contacted at madhu@indiatarot.com or Mobile: 9873283331

 

My first experience of Healing Hands

I have so many experiences that its very difficult to choose where to start. So I am sharing a prominent event happened in my life when I was just 8 years old. Its prominent for me as it changed something within me, for the first time I felt there is something different in me in comparison to others around me.

So, I use to live in a house where there were 2-3 other families were living as tenants and every family had kids of around my age. We all use to live like a big family together, sharing each others happiness and sorrows. Looking back, I feel it was such a good time as these days we mostly don’t even know who our neighbor are and who lives in the next floor in our building, life has become that busy. Well , one day the boy of my age whom I was friends with, fell ill and had very high fever. They called the doctor and got the treatment done but the fever was not going down, the parents were really worried. My mom was also sitting there rubbing his feet to relax him and the mother of the boy was putting cold water cloth band on the forehead. I was also getting as much worried as a child could be as I wasn’t understanding exactly how serious was this. And then I felt some sort of vibrations in my hands. The vibrations were so strong that my hands got warmer and warmer and at one point I actually felt my hands were getting pulled towards the sick boy. At the same time his mother went to the kitchen to change the cold water and something almost pushed me towards him. Unknowingly I kept my palms on his forehead and cheek, I strongly felt something flowing from my hands to his forehead. 2-3 minutes passed and then his mother came back and asked me what I am doing; I should go and rest at my home and should not stand here as I might also get fever from him. Then she sat near the boy and touched him. His fever was gone, all became happy and felt relieved feeling that finally medicines and prayers worked. At that time no one realized anything leaving me and my mother.

I did feel a little exhausted and my mom took me home. We did not talk for a couple of hours and then I broke the ice saying, “mamma , do you know what happened” . She nodded her head and said, you should not do it again, I m fearful that you have taken his fever on you and you are going to fall ill. And she kept on checking my fever for next 24 hours, which never came. I was born to heal and that I was my first healing, which just happened naturally.

by Dr. Madhu Kotiya

Mind, body & Soul Doctor

http://www.indiatarot.com

http://www.wiccaindia.com

can be contacted at madhu@indiatarot.com or Mobile: 9873283331

 

Life of a Psychic : Madhu Kotiya Shezaim

Living a Life, being psychic sounds very interesting to most of the people but for us it is more of a difficult one along with being exciting and always predictable as we know how the wheel of destiny is moving.

Most of the people say it is difficult to handle situations when they don’t have any idea that it is going to happen, its other way round for us because we most of the time know what is going to happen and also know that there is very less we can do to change some situations, its rather painful for us specially when we know a person will depart to heaven and nothing can be done to stop him/her.

I am starting this blog to let the world know my experiences with paranormal and occult. I will be writing my journey starting from the day I realized I am special (I was just 8 years old that time) to becoming a Spiritual/Paranormal Counselor, a healer professionally.

I hope everyone would like to read about this miraculous and unpredictable journey of a born Psychic, Madhu Kotiya Shezaim.