Client Diaries: Women in love and their weak men


” she always loved the hero in love stories.. In hers.. She became one ! ”
Women in love and their weak men
I am a healer first and that’s my passion that’s the Shaman in me but the Wiccan in me loves to get lovers together.. Women fall in love and they fall deep , most times for them it’s for ever and ever.. Their man becomes the source of all their happiness and women surrender to their love unconditionally and this has always driven me to help them .
I am going to talk of two such remarkable women and their love stories.
Some time back a young woman walked into my office. I could instantly feel her pain and disappointment and I knew that a broken heart had come to me .. I could also decipher that by then she had been to various astrologers, Tarot readers and so called relationship healers .. All had given her a negative feedback but the girl kept looking for help .. She believed in her love and refused to give up , that’s how she found me.
She had been in love with this man for years . He had gone abroad to study and found a job there. The long distance failed to deter the lovers and the man came to India with the intention of marriage, that’s when things  went terribly wrong …the girl’s legal guardians ( she had lost her parents and was taken care of by her Uncle and Aunt) and the boy’s family  got into an ugly spat over the marriage arrangements. The boy felt insulted and believed that the girl did not stand up for him . He decided to call off the marriage and broke up with the girl . He severed all contact with her and went back!
She tried to get in touch with her lover but he was not receptive at all , that’s when she started running pillar to post , getting in touch with all sorts of pandits and energy workers. She got various rituals done but to no good . I had asked her to get a picture of her lover.. I looked at the picture and told her that she is meant to get married to this man and also within ninety days! I absolutely refused to do any ritual for her cause I knew it wasn’t required. Here I want to insist that sometimes unnecessary rituals disturb the existing energy and can have a negative impact. The girl was shaky so i gave her counselling and assured her of her happiness. She called me after a month and a half to tell me the good news of her marriage.. I could see the man was in love but his ego took a beating and he was acting out of that but I could also see that his love will get the better of him eventually.
The second story is basic .. A regular indian man who chose to be in love but lacked the courage to take a stand for that!
When this woman came to me ,I could make out that she was a no nonsense girl ,she decided to be the man in the relationship and do whatever was required to get her lover to face up his parents, who were dead against the match.
This required a lot of work .. This boy was very scared of his parents.. A fear that comes with dependency also he had childhood traumas that had led to his meek personality. I knew he would succumb to pressure and let his love down!
I had to start with healing the boy , to solve his childhood issues and to give him strength to take a stand , i also had to cast various spells to make the situation more conducive for the lovers last but not the least the parents had to be dealt with! Here I would like to mention that the psychic in me could make out that the parents of this boy had no reason to dislike the girl , these were adamant people who felt that their son will be happier with a bride of their choice also they did not approve of the girl’s financial status. I don’t believe that these are reasons to not like the girl, who was an honest and self reliant young woman.
The couple decided to get married secretly and then inform the family. A series of rituals were performed for the boy’s parents to relent and also eventually not pressurize and create situations for a divorce. All the hard work paid dividends..
Both these young women are married to the men they love and are now blessed with children. These brave women and their strength to take pain , fight out odds, forgive their lovers and go beyond the weaknesses of these men and not let go was remarkable. The Wiccan in me is often delighted knowing that in these love stories the women were the true heroes and the knights in shining armour!! It gives me immense happiness and fulfilment to help them cause someone has to !!

by Dr. Madhu Kotiya

Mind , body & Soul Doctor

Client Diaries : The curious case of a possession


This particular case always reminds of the story of Red Riding Hood and the vicious wolf!! Sure , this dangerous man , who i dealt with was possessed.. By greed and the ones around him were too .. By ignorance, superstition and fear.
It could have been a classic love story, girl meets boy, they fall in love and get married except for something that was really amiss right from the beginning.. I knew the girl.. She was a student of mine and often came to me for advice. She was quite taken in by this fellow.. He was suave, laid back and an attractive man.. I must add here that my student was a remarkably pretty girl who came from a well todo family and was the only child of her parents.
She and her parents were completely charmed by her fiancé.. I would hear the stories of her romance but had not met the man in fact it so happened that I could not make it to her wedding.
She came to me after a few months had passed and shared something that was worrying her .. to my surprise, she informed that she and her husband had not consummated their marriage.. She said they would express their love in various other ways . I asked her if she thought that her husband required medical help or had alternate preferences.she denied and then revealed something very strange to me.
She said that he was a blessed man and it was her fate to be in love with the man chosen by God for a greater purpose.. I was by then really intrigued and asked her to elaborate.
The man apparently would get taken over by the Gods and would get messages.. He had to fulfil what was asked of him .. like give a certain amount of money to a temple or someone needy .. These were commands from above that could not be disobeyed at any cost!
Now, here I would like to inform my readers that .. No mortal absolutely no mortal is used as a medium by Gods .. Most times these are frauds or various other energies taking over .. these energies can be both good or bad .
I asked the girl to get him to meet me .. I can never forget that day cause i was going in for an act so polished by a master manipulator. Well .. I talked him into a hypnotherapy session and told him that we would invoke the Gods together.. I told him that to felicitate the process.. I would give him magically energised water to drink.. I did not hypnotise him and gave him tap water to drink. Voilà the man started performing. He was really good, a part of me wanted to give him a standing ovation for his performance!
I also in the process realised that this guy was no small time thug .. He was a cold hearted, highly manipulative criminal and a real danger to the girl and her family. He was not only after her money but also wanted to trade the girl off too and that’s why was not consummating the marriage.
I had to be very discreet because any revelation would have costed the girl her life .. I could see a silver lining.. Her parents had gotten her married and had moved abroad to manage their business. I decided that i had to somehow trick this guy and send her abroad without letting him find out that we have discovered his guise .. I realised that it would be much safer for her to manage her legal proceedings from abroad. The guy was very well connected to a criminal racket here.
We did succeed in our plan and the trickster was left wondering what went wrong with his plan .. Even now .. narrating this story gives me goosebumps.
Truly this was an experience thrillers are made of but to my relief this girl was lucky ..many might not be . My request is never be naive enough to blindly believe anything that your loved one is telling you . This girl and her family trusted this man , she barely knew him..was taken in by his charm and without checking much decided to get married.
Another lesson here is not to believe any mambo jambo fed to you ,in the name of God.

by Dr. Madhu Kotiya