” she always loved the hero in love stories.. In hers.. She became one ! ”
Women in love and their weak men
I am a healer first and that’s my passion that’s the Shaman in me but the Wiccan in me loves to get lovers together.. Women fall in love and they fall deep , most times for them it’s for ever and ever.. Their man becomes the source of all their happiness and women surrender to their love unconditionally and this has always driven me to help them .
I am going to talk of two such remarkable women and their love stories.
Some time back a young woman walked into my office. I could instantly feel her pain and disappointment and I knew that a broken heart had come to me .. I could also decipher that by then she had been to various astrologers, Tarot readers and so called relationship healers .. All had given her a negative feedback but the girl kept looking for help .. She believed in her love and refused to give up , that’s how she found me.
She had been in love with this man for years . He had gone abroad to study and found a job there. The long distance failed to deter the lovers and the man came to India with the intention of marriage, that’s when things went terribly wrong …the girl’s legal guardians ( she had lost her parents and was taken care of by her Uncle and Aunt) and the boy’s family got into an ugly spat over the marriage arrangements. The boy felt insulted and believed that the girl did not stand up for him . He decided to call off the marriage and broke up with the girl . He severed all contact with her and went back!
She tried to get in touch with her lover but he was not receptive at all , that’s when she started running pillar to post , getting in touch with all sorts of pandits and energy workers. She got various rituals done but to no good . I had asked her to get a picture of her lover.. I looked at the picture and told her that she is meant to get married to this man and also within ninety days! I absolutely refused to do any ritual for her cause I knew it wasn’t required. Here I want to insist that sometimes unnecessary rituals disturb the existing energy and can have a negative impact. The girl was shaky so i gave her counselling and assured her of her happiness. She called me after a month and a half to tell me the good news of her marriage.. I could see the man was in love but his ego took a beating and he was acting out of that but I could also see that his love will get the better of him eventually.
The second story is basic .. A regular indian man who chose to be in love but lacked the courage to take a stand for that!
When this woman came to me ,I could make out that she was a no nonsense girl ,she decided to be the man in the relationship and do whatever was required to get her lover to face up his parents, who were dead against the match.
This required a lot of work .. This boy was very scared of his parents.. A fear that comes with dependency also he had childhood traumas that had led to his meek personality. I knew he would succumb to pressure and let his love down!
I had to start with healing the boy , to solve his childhood issues and to give him strength to take a stand , i also had to cast various spells to make the situation more conducive for the lovers last but not the least the parents had to be dealt with! Here I would like to mention that the psychic in me could make out that the parents of this boy had no reason to dislike the girl , these were adamant people who felt that their son will be happier with a bride of their choice also they did not approve of the girl’s financial status. I don’t believe that these are reasons to not like the girl, who was an honest and self reliant young woman.
The couple decided to get married secretly and then inform the family. A series of rituals were performed for the boy’s parents to relent and also eventually not pressurize and create situations for a divorce. All the hard work paid dividends..
Both these young women are married to the men they love and are now blessed with children. These brave women and their strength to take pain , fight out odds, forgive their lovers and go beyond the weaknesses of these men and not let go was remarkable. The Wiccan in me is often delighted knowing that in these love stories the women were the true heroes and the knights in shining armour!! It gives me immense happiness and fulfilment to help them cause someone has to !!
by Dr. Madhu Kotiya
Mind , body & Soul Doctor